If I Could Tell You Just One Thing

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Motherhood is at the heart of Amazima’s story. An 18-year-old woman whose heart was moved, in compassion, to adopt 13 girls by the age of 23. Katie Davis Majors, Amazima founder, mother of 15, has led Amazima to become what it is today.

In light of Mother’s Day and how much Amazima values motherhood, we asked some of our Amazima mothers what is the one thing they would tell a younger mom.

If you are a mother–biologically, adoptively, spiritually, or dream of becoming a mother one day– this one’s for you. Happy Mother’s Day. We hope you enjoy hearing bits of wisdom from some of our Amazima mamas.

If I Could Tell You Just One Thing…

Katie Davis Majors​

Founder and Chief Visionary

Mother of 15

The most important thing is that they know God loves them. The second most important thing is that they know you love them. I say this to myself on repeat. As a younger mom, I thought a lot of things were important—a clean and orderly house, compliant and obedient children, seamless and predictable days. I could get very focused on external behavior—theirs and mine. If I could go back and do it again, I would spend a lot more time delighting in my children and a lot less time worrying about if they were wearing matching outfits or if the house was spotless. Those things don’t last, but the love that they feel from me in our home, and the love of God that I hope I reflect, will!”

Esther Mutaawe​

Family Mentor and Assistant Manager Girls' Side

Mother of 2 • 7 and 4 years old

Forgiveness plays a crucial role in maintaining a healthy marriage. Spouses need to forgive each other consistently, as this practice benefits both individuals and their children.”

Joanita Asianut Mengezi​

Head of the Language Department at Amazima Secondary + English Teacher

Mother of 4 | 11, 7, 4 and 2 years old

“As a new mother, remember to trust in God’s plan for your child’s life and pray for wisdom, guidance, and patience. Be thoughtful and intentional in your parenting, prioritizing self-care, communicating openly with your partner, and cherishing everyday moments.

Think critically, evaluating advice and information, exploring parenting styles, and staying informed without succumbing to information overload.

Above all, be kind to yourself. Ask for help when you need to, have a support team if possible, and celebrate small wins, knowing that motherhood is a journey, not a destination. By embracing these principles, you’ll navigate this journey with confidence, wisdom, and joy, cultivating a deep and loving relationship with your child. Lastly, make memories!”

Rachel Weir​

Chief Executive Officer (CEO)

Mother of 3 • 6, 4, 1 year old

God created you to be the perfect mother for your children. It’s easy to get caught in the comparison trap, thinking you should be more like other moms or wishing you could be someone else. But remember, God, in His perfect wisdom, chose you for your children. He has equipped you with everything you need to raise them with love, guidance, and care. No one knows them the way you do because God designed you specifically for them. Trust in His plan and His purpose for you as their mother. You are exactly who they need, and He will give you the strength and grace to fulfill this calling.

Kimuli Jesca

Parent of an Amazima student

Mother of 3 | 30, 24 and 21 years old

The most important advice I would give to any mother is to hold on to God, our provider.

Fayida Gloria

Humanities Teacher

Mother of 1

Every child is a precious and unique gift from God, cherish them.

Ibale Hope M-Opoi

HR Manager

Mother of 2 | 6 and 4 years old

Don’t feel guilty for the overwhelming feelings you are having. Acknowledge them and help yourself work through them lest you miss all the best moments of your precious gift’s first days/weeks/months on earth.

Once a mother, you never stop being one; neither can you pause it. Each season is beautiful, and it’s hard, but take it all in and enjoy it because it never repeats itself. In each of these seasons remember you are that child’s example for life, so let us live a life worthy of our children. Don’t dwell on where you think you have failed, just learn from it.

Robin Booker

Managing Director of Uganda

Mother of 1 | 23 years old

There are two main pieces of advice I would offer new moms or any mom really. First and foremost, let your child see you daily trusting Jesus, and secondly, strive to provide a safe space for your child to explore their interests and become the unique image-bearer of God that He created them to be.

Rose Tatusa

Campus Custodian

Mother of 3 | 16 and 8 years old and 3.5 months old

Love your child always. A child’s existence is never a mistake. Feeling unloved and unwanted can profoundly impact a child’s life, which can lead to poor decisions and a lack of direction. When they feel unseen and uncared for, they may act out in destructive ways, believing no one truly values them. Love them unconditionally.

Akot Kevin Ruth

Campus Security Guard

Mother of 3 | 16,13 and 4 years old

Young mothers, work diligently to provide a better life for your children. When possible, go above and beyond for their benefit. Make every day purposeful by doing something that adds value to your family.

Happy Mother's Day!

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